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Friday

The Royal Wedding: Big Moments

Finally! A royal wedding with personality and charm. Kate and William surprised us with two balcony kisses and a joy ride in an Aston Martin decorated with fun balloons and "Just Wed" sign. I close my Royal Wedding coverage with an album of the moments I found most special for the glimpses they gave us at the newlyweds' relationship and personalities. What a sweet start to the weekend! This wedding was a little balm after quakes, tornados, mindless politics, and violence in the Middle East. It is refreshing to celebrate beauty and love, and that is something naysayers cannot deny.

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Kate and her dad rode to Westminster in a nearly transparent Rolls Royce. Princes William and Harry arrived in a Bentley.

Watch the full ceremony here, or see highlights below.

The bridal procession was like a Jane Austen novel. The suspense was thick as the groom waited for the bride to reach the altar before seeing her. The best man, however, took a peek for him. "Wait 'til you see her." The love and excitement was palpable when William and Kate saw each other. Her expression here is priceless.

Only Kate received a ring, a Welsh gold band. Everyone knows William is married, but it should've been an exchange for the ceremony. It felt lopsided. The sermon was lovely, though. "It is possible to transform so long as there's no ambition to reform [but allow] the Spirit to flow freely....In the busyness of each day keep our eyes fixed on what is real and important in life and help us to be generous with our time and love and energy." The Bishop of London, who gave the sermon, also spoke at Diana's funeral. Read the full sermon here.

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge. The Duke prefers to remain "Prince William" and that his wife become "Princess Catherine".


So cute that Prince Harry rode with the flower girls ("bridesmaids"). See a resemblance? Lady Louise Windsor is Prince Edward's daughter.

Sweet and spontaneous! Prince William surprised us and Kate with a second smooch on the balcony of Buckingham Palace. Little Grace (front, center) tolerated the first kiss. Watch the video to see what she thought of the second one.

a good brother helping his sister-in-law

Fun! Quite a departure from the Queen's style. Charles and Camilla wouldn't mind if we beelined straight to William and Kate, right? From Buckingham to Clarence House in Prince Charles' Aston Martin DB6, which runs on E85 bio-ethanol derived from English wine wastage. Charles moved out of Buckingham years ago and made Clarence House the official residence for his sons and himself.
Youthful and playful! William sticks his tongue out at his new wife.

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This is my favorite, because it is more candid and, therefore, full of personality. Her hand is on his knee, Grace is daydreaming, Louise is distracted, Margarita is enjoying the experience as much as the bride, and the boys just want to be done with their duties.

Photographer Hugo Burnand bribed the little ones with jelly beans. Notice the pink toy worm in 3-year old Eliza's hand? When she was frightened on the balcony by the roar of the crowd, Harry pulled it out of his pocket to make her laugh. She refused to let go of it.

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All in the details: Thirty round tables, dressed with white flowers and candles, were each named after a place special to the couple. Guests enjoyed vintage pink champagne, elderflower cocktails and peach bellinis amidst the stunning backdrop of the palace’s State Apartments, feasting their eyes on paintings by the Old Masters, including Velazquez, Rubens and Van Dyck. Wines served with dinner, white Meursault Burgundy and Pomerol claret, were probably from Palace and Clarence House cellars. The menu, created by Chef Anton Mosimann, continued the "local and organic" approach the couple applied with floral décor:
terrine of dressed crab and tiger prawns
Aberdeen Angus beef fillet from Longoe Farm, the Castle of Mey, Scotland
Welsh lamb from the Highgrove estate
Spring vegetables grilled and blanched (not cooked in butter or cream)
trio of chocolate puddings
seasonal fruits
ice cream in brandy snap baskets
petit fours with coffee
2am bacon sandwiches
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The wedding cake was made with a variety of dried fruits, French brandy and free-range eggs. I love the lily of the valley detail and tone-on-tone styling that reminds me of my cake. The design, which featured over 900 sugar-paste flowers, was inspired by the garlands on the walls of the Picture Gallery. Fiona Cairns used the Joseph Lambeth decorating technique to intricately pipe elements that the couple chose for their symbolism. Rose - symbol of England, happiness : Daffodil - Wales, new beginnings : Shamrock - Ireland : Thistle - Scotland : Acorns, oak leaf - strength, endurance : Myrtle - love : Ivy - marriage : Lily of the valley - sweetness, humility : Sweet William - groom, gallantry : Honeysuckle : love's bond : Apple blossom - good fortune : White heather - protection, wishes to come true : Jasmine - amiability : Daisy - beauty, simplicity : Orange blossom - fruitfulness : Lavender - devotion, success
William specifically requested this groom's cake, made with 1700 rich tea biscuits, chocolate and rum. Yum! Darren McGrady, former personal chef to the Queen, Diana, William and Harry, provided this recipe adapted from the original royal recipe.

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William was very gracious at the first reception, thanking everyone from the florist to the chef. Although modest, a thoughtful gesture like that does not go unnoticed. (Several of my wedding clients thanked, hugged and even raved about me during their speeches. One bride's mother thanked me with a very special necklace. I will never forget the clients who valued the vision, hard work and close collaboration that went into crafting their special day.)

Guests of the evening reception report that Harry's speech was affectionate and peppered with his characteristic good humor. He referred to the couple as the Dude and Duchess. Describing his brother's relationship with Kate as "inspirational", Harry added that "William didn't have a romantic bone in his body before he met Kate, so I knew it was serious when he suddenly started cooing down the phone at Kate." Harry told friends and family that he loved Kate like a sister.

William’s closest friends from his school days at Ludgrove and Eton delivered line after line about “gags about William”, which threw guests into fits of laughter.

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The big surprise? The throne room (as in the portraits above) was converted into a "massive nightclub" with a stage, a dance floor, plenty of sofas for lounging, and an expansive cocktail bar serving champagne, spirits and mojitos. The room's stately chandelier was retrofitted with laser and strobe lights to enliven the dance floor. The evening culminated with fireworks as the couple exited in a convertible vintage Fiat 500 with “RAF” emblazoned on its side.
Hardcore partyers continued the celebration at The Goring Hotel, which the Middletons hired out in its entirety. Some who did the five-minute walk from the palace to the hotel raced piggy-back style through the empty, blocked-off surrounding streets. (I would have been among them.)

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William and Kate invited only one singer to perform at the reception, up-and-coming pop artist Ellie Goulding. She played a two-hour set that included "Starry Eyed" and her lovely cover of Elton John's "Your Song" for the couple's first dance:
In honor of the occasion, George Michael released a special cover of Stevie Wonder's "You & I" for free download, encouraging listeners to donate to the couple's charitable gift fund. The playlist included club, rave and '60s music, as well as: 
You're the One that I Want (Grease)
Pass Out (rapper Tinie Tempah)
I Like the Way You Move (Body Rockers)
Sex on Fire (Kings of Leon)
Mr. Brightside (The Killers)
She Loves You (Beatles) - last song to which everyone sang along

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The couple postoned their honeymoon; possible locations include Mauritius Seychelles, the Greek island of Corfu, and Richard Branson's Necker Island. Here they are leaving for their secret weekend getaway, after which William returns to work as a search and rescue pilot.

p.s. - I want her shoes! These Steve Maddens come maddeningly close.

Monday

Antidote to Holiday Withdrawal

The party doesn't have to end. December is glorious in its festivity - the food, the color, the lights, the entertainment, the good company. In many European and Latin American countries, communities traditionally continue celebrating through January 6, thanks to the Epiphany. They're on to something, n'est-ce pas?

Closing the curtain on celebration makes as much sense as swearing off good books once we've finished a single great read. Weave celebration into your months, weeks, even days. After all, the albums in our minds are full of these moments - grand or modest - not the colorless. So celebrate a great run, project or even an interesting idea. Invent a holiday. Make it spontaneous and share a toast with friend, child or neighbor. Take turns throwing a tea/dinner/brunch/dessert/movie party at someone's house. Too tired, too busy? Make it collaborative and keep it simple. You have to eat, right? Share the meal, share the work and you won't be tempted to back out.

Here are a few non-traditional "holidays" to get you through the otherwise least exciting winter months:

courtesy of archivistscookbook
 : January :
hot tea month
national soup / hobby / thank you month
6 - Sherlock Holmes' birthday
8 - bubble bath day
9 - national static electricity day
10 - peculiar people day
11 - milk / secret pal day
13 - make your dreams come true / poetry break day, rubber duckie's birthday
14 - national dress up your pet day
18 - Winnie the Pooh day
19 - popcorn day
20 - cheese /penguin awareness day
21 - hat / squirrel appreciation day
24 - compliment day, eskimo pie birthday
25 - opposite day
27 - chocolate cake / kazoo day, Lewis Carroll's birthday
28 - Ernie's birthday
29 - national puzzle day
31 - backwards day

courtesy of ohdeedoh
 : February :
American heart / history month
international friendship month
national cherry / embroidery / grapefruit / snack food month
2 - goundhog day
3 - chinese new year, Elmo's birthday
5 - Western Monarch (butterfly) day, world nutella day
6 - monopoly board game birthday
7 - Charles Dickens / Laura Ingalls Wilder birthday
9 - Hershey's day
10 - umbrella day
11 - national inventor's day, white t-shirt day
13 - get a different name day
14 - ferris wheel day
15 - national gumdrop day, Susan B Anthony's birthday
17 - chinese lantern festival, random acts of kindness day
19 - Mr. Roger's Neighborhood day
20 - toothpick day
21 - love your pet day
22 - be humble / world thinking day
26 - carnival day, Levi Strauss' birthday
27 - HW Longfellow's birthday
29 - Yellowstone Park day

courtesy of patentandthepantry
 : March :
Irish-American heritage month
national craft / frozen food / noodle month
woman's history / youth art month
2nd week: bubble gum week
1 - peanut butter lover's day
2 - Dr. Seuss's birthday, read across America day
4 - national poundcake day
5 - parachute day
6 - Michelangelo's birthday
9 - Barbie's birthday
14 - Einstein's birthday, potato chip day
17 - rubber band day, St. Patrick's Day, submarine day
18 - Johnny Appleseed day
20 - Big Bird's birthday, spring equinox
21 - children's poetry day
22 - national goof-off / sing-out day
23 - toast day
24 - chocolate covered raisin day, Houdini's birthday
25 - pancake's birthday
26 - make up your own holiday day
28 - something on a stick day

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Friday

Milestone Anniversary

Ten years ago, just a year out of college, my husband chose me. They must be in the minority, those well-educated men who know their hearts and can make such serious pledges at such a young age. Although getting married (well, getting engaged) was originally my idea and I understood the scale of that pledge, it was many years later that I began to understand its full scope and meaning, and realized the full significance of the choice he (and I) made at that age. Ten years after that dream-like day sitting in our house with our dog and working on our business, I'm struck by wonder over that choice and gratitude for my best friend, the most impressive human being I've met, and our life together.
I'm not saying life is easy and marriage is a piece of cake. (Wait, cake isn't easy to make! Not the the moist, delicious, labor-intensive, suspenseful, made-from-scratch kind... the authentic, legitimate kind. So maybe marriage is like cake after all.) Act I of life (pre husband-to-be) made me think I drew the short straw. Fortunately, the universe balanced that unsolicited, soap-opera worthy first act with Act II, the real deal. 

Our wedding was a sweet, languid, old-timey celebration on the lawn of a cozy 17th century waterfront house on the National Registry of Historic Places. Think "an al fresco high tea à la Martha Stewart". The house, somewhat close to our alma mater, is in the country by way of long and windey unnamed roads. Picture a rolling lawn with a gazebo-like well, tiger lilies, and an unobstructed view of the river. In retrospect, I think the house is much like us - combining a love of history with a love of innovation, old stories with fresh, modern sensibilities. Its renovation was beautiful, from the restoration of the original house to the addition of sophisticated yet airy and unpretentious modern quarters. The grandparent-like owners didn't advertise, so theirs was a small operation distinguished by their elegant Southern hospitality. This made the site a hidden gem, giving our wedding a made-to-order feel. I was so charmed by that house that I, during my years as an event planner, took clients there for their destination-esque weddings. Apparently, something about our wedding inspired the owners, too; ten years later, our photos still head the site's online gallery.

So how did we celebrate this milestone anniversary? We went to Istanbul in May (more on that later), so on the big day we did one of our favorite things. We cooked dinner together, experimenting with new recipes, while listening - and, occasionally, dancing - to all kinds of music. Course I: Mymouné Whole Figs in fig-infused Syrup with Manchego and Novella Rayons de Soleil 2008 Muscat Canelli from Trader Joes (maybe overkill on the sweet stuff, but this wine is so refreshing with its aromatic notes of apricot and honey). Course II: Tilapia steam-baked with zucchini, tomato and basil. Course III: English trifle, for which I suggest using sponge cake instead of pound cake, Framboise or Grand Marnier instead of light rum, and lemon curd with or in lieu of vanilla pudding. You can't beat a gourmet meal at a fraction of the cost at a restaurant. We had a blast!

What token did we gifting experts give to each other? The trip to Istanbul was gift enough, of course, but we sneaked in a little something extra on the big day. He surprised me with a shirt I tried on in Istanbul and a replica of the first gift he gave me, a Coke and a Snickers bar (college story). I, in the bad habit of buying the perfect card months in advance of a special occasion then hiding it so well that I (or he) find it after the occasion, rushed to make him one when I couldn't find the store-bought card. From style of card to style of wording, our cards coordinated - jinx! (Those are silver-stamped birds in a sky of clear iridescent glitter on the cover of the one I made. The one he gave me, on the right, has clear iridescent glitter on the wings.) I paired it with a handmade crepe-paper rose reminiscent of the flowers at our wedding. I had another gift in mind, but it's such a time-intensive project that it's still in-progress. Hopefully, I'll finish it for his birthday, and I'll unveil it to you then because he does read this blog.

On to the next ten years... and more cake, of course.

p.s. - Our wedding cake was exactly like the one in the photo. Lemon with raspberry filling. To. Die. For.
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Martha Stewart wedding cake, bridal bouquet by deeakright, cards by natalie@calliopeboutique
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